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Are you standing at a life-defining crossroads, no longer able to ignore your longing to create—to share your unique gift with the world & to leave your legacy?
Midlife will do that to you. It will strip away distractions and reveal what truly matters in your life. It’s a time when depth and meaning become far more important than Lululemon and Botox. It’s a time when you begin to reflect on the span of your life, not just on the dreams you’ve realized, but on the ones still buried within, waiting to be brought to the surface.
Most importantly, it’s a time to shed the weight of societal expectations, to let others’ opinions slip away, so that you can gain the clarity and courage to hear what is calling you—an inner voice that has always been there, guiding you toward the life you were meant to live, and the purpose you are meant to serve.
The truth is, most of us—through no fault of our own—got swept up in the endless demands and ceaseless distractions of the first half of life. Perhaps we devoted ourselves to raising children, climbing the career ladder, and supporting our loved ones at the expense of ourselves, all while quietly allowing our own dreams and creative aspirations to gather dust. (Hell, maybe we buried them in the backyard under our prize-winning roses.)
Part of the task of the second half of life is to go back & pick up the bits and pieces that we left behind—gifts, talents, capacities, interests, & passions. ~ James Hollis
If one of the “bits & pieces you’ve left behind” is your longing to write, and now your children have embarked on their own adventures, or your once-thriving career has lost its spark, or life’s unexpected challenges have left you reeling, then that latent creativity within you is rumbling. It’s the quiet yet persistent urge to excavate this deeper, hidden part of yourself and bring it up into being.
At the heart of the fears my clients confide in me is the same fear you might be feeling now—the fear of reaching the end of your life and thinking: What a waste? Not because you haven’t achieved truly meaningful things, but because the truest part of yourself—the part meant to be seen, known, and shared—was never fully brought into the light.
If this resonates with you, you’re in the right place.
It’s time to remember who you really are & to reclaim your creativity.
The question is…Do you want to reclaim your creativity by following someone else’s rules or trudging through formulaic guides like How to Write Your Book in 5 Seconds? This path means ticking boxes, meeting external expectations, and likely ignoring your own authentic voice and what it is you really long to convey to the world.
My hunch is that if you’re still with me, you’re looking for another path. One that encourages you to find your authentic voice and create art for art’s sake, no matter what society tells you. One where the process matters to you—the self-discovery, the evolution, the transformation that happens when you mine your inner landscape to create from a deeper place and let your True Self—your Soul—take up the “pen” or put fingers to keyboard.
Sure, every writer I know faces the relentless battle of “applying ass to chair,” pushing through the resistance to simply sit down and do the work. But what most writers do not realize is that the most insidious challenge of all is not just getting the work done, it’s confronting these questions buried so deeply in all of us creators: Who’s going to care about what I have to say? And…Will anyone even understand me?
To make matters worse…
We unknowingly allow the gatekeepers to wield their picks and shovels and suddenly their voices in our heads are deafening. Who are the gatekeepers? Editors, agents, publishing houses, oh my—wonderful, well-meaning, talented people, yes, but during the creation phase, their presence can be downright destructive. This is not the time to let their daunting questions echo in your mind:
- Will this make the NYT bestseller list?
- Do you have a platform of 9 gazillion followers?
- What is your publication history?
- Could it be turned into a Netflix series?
- What is your marketing plan?
If you don’t have the answers, they may as well whisper straight into your soul, “Why even bother?” If you listen to that whisper, you’re already self-defeated and creatively paralyzed, and what you’re trying to quarry will end up six-feet deeper than it was before.
Here’s the truth: What you’re really wrestling with in midlife is the process of reclaiming your creativity by mining your inner gold.
This isn’t the time for gatekeepers, inflated egos, or the persona of a NYT best-selling author—that phase comes later, when it’s time to give your ego a bigger role in getting your work into the world. Right now, in the act of creating, it’s about grabbing your own tools and digging deep enough to uncover something real and raw. This is where you’ll find the most authentic art, the kind of art that transforms you—and by extension, transforms others.
As a midlife creator, you’re standing on the edge of a rich, untouched vein of inner gold, waiting to be excavated. The tension you face is, on one hand, you’re being called to mine this inner authenticity, to dig down into the layers of your soul untouched by external expectations. On the other, you’re tasked with shaping what you unearth into something the world can hold, admire, and buy—a polished artifact ready for the marketplace.
This clash—between the raw, unrefined gold of your True Self and the polished product demanded by the marketplace—can paralyze your creative process if the weight of public perception seeps into the act of creation itself.
And…you definitely don’t want to allow the audience’s gaze to infiltrate your sacred work during this process of excavation, or the gold will remain buried, unreachable. Your creativity will stall, trapped beneath the pressure of shaping your inner riches into something your mom will like, your friends will gush over, your colleagues will admire, and Penguin Random House will say “hell yes” to, before it’s even fully uncovered.
On top of this, there’s the shame that can creep in, that feeling of raw vulnerability of revealing your deepest treasures—your soul’s unpolished ore—to a world that may overlook or undervalue it, or gasp…critique it. This fear, this sort of trembling at the edge of exposure, can feel like an unbearable risk.
Yet this is the artist’s ancient calling: to brave the depths, to keep mining for truth even when it feels too raw, too close to the bone. It’s the artist’s work to bring forth what is timeless and hidden, and to offer it, transformed, to the light of day, where it may finally be seen and felt.
Why is it so damned hard to hear that Inner Companion and what can you do about it?
Beyond the obvious…technology, social media, and cleaning the grout in the shower (which is what becomes absolutely critical to me the moment I sit down to write…and I don’t even have grout), is that you haven’t set up an unassailable container. And this is crucial. When you’re sitting, fingers poised over the keyboard, the only two “people” present should be you and your Inner Companion. Mining is messy. You’re not trying to make it pretty, revising every sentence until you’re left with ten words, though you initially wrote five hundred. And…you’re not emailing it to your critique group either. This isn’t the time to hear, “Hey, your memoir is great, but you should add an alien in chapter three.” The other entity that’s not invited into the container is your Inner Critic. I don’t know about yours, but mine is an asshole. The sacred container contains only: You and Your Soul. Period. And it becomes a spiritual practice, regardless of your spiritual or religious beliefs.
Beyond establishing that unbreakable container, you must actively engage in your inner work—Shadow Work, Emotional Alchemy, and Dream Interpretation. Yes, Shadow Work is a buzzword right now, but what does it really do for uncovering your Inner Gold and finding your true voice? Think of it this way: how can you reveal your authentic voice if vast parts of you are hidden below the surface, buried in the unconscious? How can you craft genuine characters, or reflect your True Self in your work, if so much of what drives you is unexplored? And those fears—the ones about failing or even succeeding—where do they hide out? That’s right…deep in your shadow, waiting to be unearthed.
And here’s something that is absolutely critical: Shadow Work isn’t something you can do on your own with a book or worksheet. Your clever ego will only let you scratch the surface. So, whether you work with me or someone else, find someone truly trained to help you go deep—someone who knows the terrain of shadow and can guide you safely through it.
Emotional Alchemy is essential to writing from the True Self. Without excavating our personal experiences and emotions—feeling them rather than bypassing them—we can’t tap into that raw, emotional core. As Robert Frost said, “No tears in the writer, no tears in the reader.” To which I would add, “No catharsis in the writer, no catharsis in the reader.” Because let’s be honest: if your writing lacks emotion and emotional transformation, it’s lifeless. It’s filler. I’ll go further: It’s absolute garbage. No one cares. Imagine if A Christmas Carol ended with Ebenezer Scrooge, having met his three ghosts, caught glimpses of his life’s choices, and having seen the fate of poor Tiny Tim…only to remain the same bitter, curmudgeonly, miserly man. The story would have no impact, no soul, no reason to exist.
If we’re not actively engaging with our own emotions and embracing the highs and lows of a true emotional life, we can’t create writing that resonates deeply either. Carl Jung said: “Without emotion, there can be no transformation.” This is the essence of powerful writing. Whether you’re crafting fiction or personal reflections, it’s the emotional depth and genuine transformation that elevates your work and make it unforgettable.
Dream Interpretation. Wait—what? For many, it’s surprising to learn that one of the richest veins of creative insight comes from our dreams. Our Inner Companion speaks to us through dreams, offering a hidden map to our inner landscapes. By digging into these nightly messages, we tap into a deep well of symbolism, hidden truths, and inspiration that lie just beneath the surface.
Dreams speak in symbols and metaphors, brimming with meaning and layers. By interpreting these symbols, you gain access to a unique, symbolic language that can add depth and resonance to your storytelling. It’s a powerful tool to uncover themes and ideas that may be lying dormant, waiting to be explored more fully in your work. And perhaps most importantly, dream work connects you to timeless archetypes and universal story patterns that captivate readers on a deep, subconscious level.
Mining the rich terrain of your dreams can unearth precious material, giving your writing the weight and depth that only comes from tapping into the hidden reserves of the unconscious.
Ink & Insight: Excavate Your Inner Gold, Unearth Your Creative Passion & Craft a Fulfilling Second Half of Life
If you haven’t gathered by now, Ink & Insight is not your typical writing program, and it certainly doesn’t follow the formula for churning out a book in 5 seconds, managed by keyword-driven aspirations for Amazon bestseller status in obscure categories like: Alpaca / Yarn / Red.
Rather, it’s a deeply transformational experience meticulously designed for individuals in the midlife season who are ready to rekindle their neglected passions, resurrect dormant talents, and unveil the True Selves that have been shrouded in the midst of life’s chaos. It’s a
If you’re wondering whether I myself have stood on the edge of that rich, untouched vein of inner gold and felt the unbearable risk of raw vulnerability and exposure, the answer is a resounding “yes.”
The first half of my life was a relentless cycle of creating for others, of tirelessly building their dreams and helping them soar. To be clear, those years were profoundly rewarding, filled with accomplishments and joy, and a deep love for my clients. Yet this dedication and ceaseless effort came at a cost—the surrendering of my own creative genius and my own deep longing to write.
After what I can only describe as my “dark-year-and-a-half-to-two-years of the soul” (let’s not get it twisted, it’s far longer than a mere “dark night of the soul”)—a period marred by the profound losses of loved ones, grueling health struggles, and an MFA program that nearly crushed my identity as a writer, I had a deep epiphany. I realized there were hidden depths within me waiting to be unearthed and an inner permission that I urgently needed to grant myself in order to follow my longing to create. And even more than that, to allow myself and my work to shine.
For over a decade, my unwavering passion has been helping writers bring their stories to life. My own love affair with writing began at the tender age of 8 when I penned my first tale about witches with carbuncles. My voracious appetite for reading across genres, and obtaining a Bachelors degree in English/Creative Writing and an MFA, only fueled my passion for the power of writing.
My qualifications extend beyond writing alone and encompass a multifaceted approach to mentoring. In 2013, I embarked on a transformative journey of coach training, beginning with Martha Beck’s Wayfinder life coach program in 2013. I then went on to become a certified Equus coach and a master-certified Jungian Depth coach, adding profound layers to my ability to facilitate personal growth and transformation. My diverse background in writing and my extensive coach training form a unique and dynamic combination that sets me apart.
Throughout my career, I’ve had the privilege of assisting authors in achieving remarkable milestones, including securing coveted spots on prestigious lists like the New York Times and USA Today bestsellers. I’ve witnessed the birth of thriving businesses that were sparked by the writing of their books (yes, even memoirs), and the subsequent prosperity that comes with finding their purpose. Yet, as significant as these achievements are, I’ve come to recognize that the most profound transformations occur at a much deeper level.
The heart of our collaborative work lies in the true catharsis that takes place and I act as a guide and a compassionate witness to the inherent force within you—a force that is whole and complete. I am a meaning maker and a pattern recognizer, with a distinct ability to perceive and intricately weave together the seemingly disparate threads in your writing into the most exquisite tapestry imaginable.
Ink & Insight Includes:
Emotional Alchemy
Dream Interpretation
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This Program Is NOT For You If:
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